
It is the American dream to have the freedom
for self determination, not subjugated by predetermination. Neil Altman writes:
“Problems arise…when one loses the dialectical relationship between being free and being determined, when one fails to
take account both of our human capacity for freedom and the ways in which that
freedom is limited.” Foucault reminded us how society, its institutions and
history, organizes our thinking around constructed power structures. Damaging others through subjugation of their capacity
for self determination, whether talking sex or race, ought to generate guilt. But operating in the paranoid-schizoid position we split
ourselves (good me - bad me) and split others.
Separating ourselves is antithetical
to healing, whether done from within— through dissociation, disavowal, projection, and
denial— or from without— through racism, misogyny, contempt for others. To address
our dis-integration by these mechanisms we must first acknowledge our
participation in them. Once acknowledged, a public (that is, explicit) dialogue
can happen. Traumatic experience otherwise remains split off, unspoken. The Fourteenth
and Nineteenth Amendments, and subsequent Civil Rights legislation, came about
through dialogue, sometimes waging.
We organize ourselves not merely around drives, but more over around
attachment and belonging. When excluded
and left out we feel ashamed.
There is security in finding others like
ourselves, but there is joy in finding like-mindedness amongst difference.
Happy Independence Day, USA.
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